Do you really need people who make you feel bad!
by Elizabeth.
(N.Z.)
No one needs people who make you feel bad, it happens they tend to be the people that you most want to make you feel good and acceptable.
Bear it in mind that certain persons like to put other people down to make themselves feel superior.
They are not happy until they have decimated you and created a feeling of worthlessness within you and doubt that you are ever going to make it.
If you are in the position to walk away, do it and leave them behind. They are poisonous and pollute the atmosphere around them as well as other people who associate quite happily with them.
There are other people out there who are more compatible and will greet you for what they see you as and make you welcome in the groups that they belong to.
Groups of people form an energy field around them which changes when other people come into it. Everyone knows what can happen when another person or persons comes into that group and their feelings and actions cause disharmony into what once was a perfectly harmonious situation.
Unfortunately even family groups are affected by relatives who are not happy unless they are causing some sort of friction or they are using other members of the family to fire the bullets that they have created. It is so easy to do. Just too easy, you have to be up with the play to put an end to their little games.
When going on holiday it is sometimes better to go on one's own rather than in a group of uneven numbers as there is a tendency in a group of three, for two to gang up on one person, and spoil their holiday.
MY ADVICE - WALK IF IT BECOMES NECESSARY, IT IS NOT WORTH EATING YOUR HEART OUT OVER SOMEONE WHO IS BEING A NASTY MEAN AND DEVIOUS PERSON.