I hate being away from my boyfriend.

by Helen
(Northern Ireland)

I cant stand to be apart from my boyfriend. I want to be with him 24/7 and love spending time with him. I hate it when he has to go home at night and especially when he goes away with friends instead of spending the night with me.


Its hard to explain but i get really upset when he goes away with his friends and especially when he goes out with them cause i know there will be other girls around him and i hate the thought of them getting to spend the night with him instead of me. Its not that i dont trust him. i trust him completely but i just feel really alone when he goes out without me. I don't know what to do as im afraid it's ruining our relationship as i am becoming clingy and don't want to let him go. Please help

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I hate being away from my boyfriend.
by: Anonymous

I think that most people in your position feel this way, especially in the first few months.
You have to go slowly with this and not expect too much as your association has to grow and develop.
Enjoy his company and the good times you have together. If you have mutual interests share them.
You will have to learn not to be too possessive as this may in the end destroy any love you have together. Any relationship must be built on love and trust in each other. And give and take.
It is essential that you keep up with your other interests and friends to keep a balance.

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