need more self confidence in my relationship by: Anonymous
Be thankful that he wants you to develop as a person. That is good, because it is essential to build outside interests and keep in touch with people It is not good or fair to build your complete life around one person. You need others on the fringe in your life. It does not matter if you have interests that you do not share, it matters that you have perhaps two or three that you do share. We all need contacts outside our home that bring us in connection with other people who likewise need our friendship and continued input. There is nothing so dull as people who have no life and no contacts outside their homes.