nephew bullies his parents and phyically abuses mother and verbally abuses both parents and still living at home at 23 yrs old

Nephew 23yrs lives at home and continues to bully his parents for years. Also he gets physical as well as abusive with his mother which is my sister and now she is back in the hospital for the

3th time in 6yrs because of it. It's is a love hate relationship and yet she won't ask him to leave and many times makes up excuses for him as well as be afraid of him. What can I do?
Sincerely
Diane R

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Nephew bullies parents.
by: Anonymous

It is a case of parents thinking that they will lose their son if he goes and this is a hold he has over them. People make rods for their backs from the time a child is born. If they have consistently let him get away with selfish and bad behaviour they only have themselves to blame. It is not kind either to let someone do this as they will do it to other people they have a relationship with.

It is sad but sometime or other, time will take care of it. He may leave home of his own accord when something more to his liking comes up, or else when there is a change in his home circumstances which is not to his liking.
If there are brothers and sisters, they may finally bring some pressure on him to alter his ways or move out.

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