trouble boyfriend

by bella
(canberra)

My boyfriend I have been going out for a while now bout 1 year and 7 months. Normally he's okay like not to much of a handful or anything but lately he's been so different. He doesn't want to go away on holidays with me but his friends, that's a totally different story.

He treats me like I'm nothing looks at other girls right in front of me. Even though I am nice to him, give him everything, he still is a jerk telling me to go away, hanging up in my face, swearing at me for no reason. I asked him what the deal is he said you should know me by now and I said I do this isn't you. I wanted to break up but I love him. I don't know what I'm meant to do.

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Hello
by: Anonymous

Hmm, well, I'm sure the easiest advice I could give is to break up with the dude. He doesn't sound like a keeper. If he can't even stand to clear up why he's acting that way I really don't see the point in continuing a relationship. I'll say relationship again because I want to emphasise what a relationship represents, communication and respect. It doesn't seem like he respects you enough to tell you what's going on or to even treat you with dignity, yet he expects the very same thing from you.

If you can't move forward in the relationship because communication is not an option and you don't want to break up with him, then you should just think really hard about what it is exactly that you want from him and tell him exactly that. Make it uncomplicated and be demanding. Don't give him an ultimatum because that is petty and then you would be sinking as low as him, but be clear. If he doesn't respect your needs, then the only thing I can say is dump him and find someone who does. Good Luck

Trouble boyfriend
by: Anonymous

My advice get rid of him, if he does not respect you you are better on your own. Get back with your other friends and find some interests that you like to do.
There will be other young men out there who will treat you a lot better, you just have to go out and find them. You do not have to settle for second best, if someone does not come up to standard ditch them too.

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